Pleaaaaaaaase read this!!!!!!!!

Hi friends;


I felt the need to express my feelings as soon as possible:
I want to talk about "Chatting"
Honestly , I used to look at "chat" as a means of communication, of discovering new friends from all over the world, that 'innocent' view.

But this perfect view towards "chat" turn to the contrary , because I discovered that chatting is a "bad habit" , and I say a habit , because it's really a habit , that the 1 do it once , so he will certain do it twice.
I do not want to give just an opinion , but I will prove it:
When I 1st enter to a chat room (of a radio) I was absolutely shocked , there is no 1 speaks sensible way , except some of course and they are very rare.
All of them ask these question :
Are you beautiful? What is the colour of your hair? and many other Q?s I don't want to say it.
Besides this , I discovered that every 1 in "chat" shows his real face , even he lies or say things do not really exist , so he is showing his real face : he is a lier.
You Know??
I have a value which is ; I must try everything (of course not every thing) , but there is things I must try it so than I can say if it is good or not,I tried the experience of 'Chatting' , but I discover that it is not good at all.
I'm so so sorry to tell you that are tunisians persons and it's really a pity that they think like that or talk like that .
I'm chocked by discovering such truth.

But , but I only find 1 person who is different , he speak in apolite and a respectful way.(by the way I invite him to our forum and he is a member now)

What I want to say is that "chatting" is a phenomenon shows deeply a huge culture, an honest exposition of ways of thinking , manners of communications , a free discovery of a whole new values of a new strange generation .
I know that chatting is a wayof communication , this is true , but it can be very danger , if we did not recognise the respectful limits.
Maybe I visited the wrong place , I don't know?
Please I want to know your opinion , because it's really abig issue that we must talk about.
What do you think friends , I really respect any different thinking, maybe will change my dark opinion.
So who is with chat ? Who is not??

I like chatting, I mean according to my experience, I made a lot of friends and I met 3 of them in real life, and inchalla this summer i will meet more, (they are foreign and they are comnig to visit me )
It's true what you said but you just have to ignore them, kit's exactly like real life, you find bad and good people
so you just have to choose
comm'on SISTa it's ok
i mean just be carefull

Thanx Ahmed u always answer my Q?s and make me feel much better .
Thank u brother(I do really love the word Sister)

Well joumen!
I don't think you are sick or you have a problem! It's just you are shy "maybe i'm wrong"
I do like people, talking with people and meeting new faces even in internet , as i said before i already met about 4 friends from the net and they were really good friends till now!
It's exactly like real world , bad ang god people do exist!
And about the other point you said you are afraid of making people sick !
What is this, are you so pessimistic?
I mean comm'on ! Try us , "the memebrs of the forum
we won't be sick
You are welcome everytime you are among us!!
and be more positive!
there are good friends waiting for you outside there
salam alaycom

Hi Joumen
I really understand u , because I'm little shy and I scared if others will accept me or not , but now I change my mind and I do beleive in making new friends relationships . I personelly never mind if others liked me or not , but I have confidence in my ways of thinking and I want to be opening and I accept others even they are bad or good , I mean this is up to them . But what is important is that by avoiding people you are missing many things , missing a new way of thinking , misssing an othr experienses_and you know that "wise man learn by other's faults"_ I mean each new friend will add to our life new things , even it's bad , so we can learn from it .
Courage is needed in this , so do the first step and never hesitate...
And we are friends here in the forum , we are making a nice family day after day ...


I wish we meet someday and know each other better
Your sister OLFA

GREAT THIS WHAT WE CALL A Family
by the way mamado the new members sent me a personal message and he said he is lost , he needs help
so please answer him if he need any support
this is what we do with all our new members!!
we welcome them